Once you have got the technique right, your heart rate should become slower and you should feel overall calmer.
There is another technique which can help if the breathing technique is not for you and it is called grounding. Grounding works by shifting the focus of the brain onto something other than the anxiety that is being experienced.
This technique can help as it uses the environment and senses to help focus attention on something other than a trigger for anxiety.
When you experience anxiety you need to identify:
- Five things you can see
- Four things you can hear
- Three things you can smell
- Two things you can feel
- One thing you can taste
This focuses your brain onto something other than the anxiety that is being experience and lowers your heart rate as well as your breathing almost immediately. Trying something until you get what works for you is key. It is important that if you are experiencing anxiety and it is affecting your everyday life, you speak to someone.